Those who have been unbelievably cruel to me through email, blog posts, and blog comments lately can choke on their hateful words. I am not a liar. I am just a girl who wants to make a difference in the lives of other children. Not every law is the same in every state. Not every law was the same when I was in foster care. I know what I am talking about. Before anyone freaks out about the name on these documents, I've said in other posts that I went by my middle name as a child.